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23 November 2016 @ 07:39 pm
For family and to - getherness, looking back at what we have and have had and hopefully being thankful .

Reality for each and every one is different and can be tricky to deal with as life surely isn't fair .

Nevertheless life is meant to not only be lived but to grow and improve as one goes along and gets older else one day you'll wind up that old bitter person no one likes to be near .

Choosing to lie and call others who've actually been very supportive ' nasty' isn't honest but if you're not really interested in having a happy life that's your choice .

Don't be dishonest and blame others .

I could write my crazy life full of upsets and odd happenings and it'd read like a bad soap opera (I think) but what's the point ? . [humor maybe =8-) ]

I know life is precious because I wasn't supposed to have lived this long, I'm glad to wake up every morning even if i have no food to eat ~ I will soon I am sure .

Besides, there are others whom depend upon me so I pull up my big boy pants and go forth to embrace life and all it's foibles .

Puling endlessly helps no one least of all me or whom ever does that .

I know many here have simply horrid Families/Siblings/parents/whatever as I certainly do but if you let their weirdness, anger or hate dictate _your_ daily life then they have won over you .

I've been helped along so many times over the Decades that I'd be remiss not to offer some well needed help ~ we take in Foster boys, mostly angry Teenagers who's parents treated them horribly, those who listen to the common sense basic ideas and house rules we set out, _always_ come out happy and well adjusted, it's a pleasure when they drop by years later to tell us how right we were even though they didn't always realize it at the time .

Surrounding your self with sympathetic acquaintances who only say ' there, there ' isn't going to help you move forward and become the wonderful person I know is inside you .

I hope all here who read this have a good Thanksgiving and try to realize that life is meant to be ENJOYED not suffered through like the average tea bagger alt-right niwit .

Families, they're special being part of your blood ~ some times you simply have to keep them at an arm's length because they're incorrigible but don't let them run your life nor sap away your happiness nor belittle the accomplishments you've achieved .

Current Location: South Central Los Angeles
Current Mood: chipper, content,
Current Music: Quietude
03 October 2016 @ 06:44 am
It's almost that time again Janet .

I hope this past one has been good to you and the coming year is even better .

Current Location: Pasadena, District 1
Current Mood: cautiously optimistic
Current Music: None
25 September 2016 @ 09:17 pm
It's that time again ~ HAPPY BIRTHDAY my dear Farie ! .

Current Location: South Central Los Angeles
16 June 2016 @ 06:34 pm
I'm not sure of they specific day Professor so let my say a happy one to you now in advance .

May many more follow .

02 May 2016 @ 05:09 am
I may n ot be OnLine 5.4 so let me say HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU now .

Current Mood: hopefulhopeful
Current Music: Industrial Static
16 November 2015 @ 11:09 am
To - day is my Son's 38th birthday .

Whew , that's been a very long road , he's doing very well indeed , no drugs , no bastards , works hard and plays hard , is raising up his Daughter well .

I hope he soon has a moment to spend with me to celebrate , to - day is his day , he's taken off work to spend it with his Family .

Current Location: Los Angeles , California
Current Mood: accomplished
Current Music: Silence for now
15 October 2015 @ 05:37 am
Talking about Birthdays.....

My Son's 37th B-Day is a month out , mine is three weeks , others here (Hi Bill !) are almost there .....

Current Mood: Thoughtful
Current Music: Blessed Silence
26 September 2015 @ 06:33 am

18 June 2015 @ 07:09 am
Is here again .

Happy birthday David ! .

Many more to come .

in soggy Chester Il.
03 May 2015 @ 07:12 pm
My dear Fairie ;

I hope this day finds you well .